Loving God by Loving Others
As I navigate through life’s challenges, I often find myself reflecting on a crucial question: “Am I truly loving God by loving those who test my patience?” The answer lies in the words of John, who reminds us that loving God is inextricably linked to loving our brothers and sisters in Christ. In 1 John 4:20-21, we’re given a clear command: all who love God must also love other Christians.
The Power of Offense
Offense is a subtle yet potent force that can provoke, annoy, irritate, or even cause pain or injury. It’s not just the act itself, but also the reaction it elicits – indignation, resentment, or anger – which can lead to a breach in relationships. When someone sins against us, our natural inclination is to demand retribution. However, as followers of Christ, we’re called to respond with grace, watching over our hearts, guarding our mouths, and releasing the offender.
Responding with Wisdom
The writer of Proverbs urges us to respond to offenses by giving evidence of God’s grace. Take a moment to reflect on how you responded the last time you were offended. Did you react with patience and wisdom, or did you allow your emotions to get the better of you? As Proverbs 19:11 reminds us, “A man’s wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense.” Patience is wisdom, and wisdom lets an offense pass without responding sinfully.
The Importance of Patience
Love keeps no record of wrongs suffered, and patience is the key to overcoming offense. As Proverbs 16:32 states, “Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city.” A Spirit-controlled response wins battles, and patience can lay to rest great errors. When we guard our mouths and tongues, we keep ourselves from calamity.
Breaking Down Dividing Walls
Jesus died to break down the dividing walls that separate us, and contention only serves to drive us further apart. An offended brother is more unyielding than a fortified city, and disputes are like the barred gates of a citadel. As followers of Christ, we’re called to respond with calmness, overcoming anger and turning aside the hurtful actions of others.
The Standard of Forgiveness
Identify the great forgiveness of Jesus in each situation and relationship. He was delivered over to death for our sins, bearing them to His cross. Those who have been forgiven much will forgive much. Jesus is the standard, the means, the power, and the grace for any person or situation. He never leaves us without the power to obey His commands, because He is living in us to obey.
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