The Power of Unwavering Love
As we navigate the complexities of life, it’s essential to examine the state of our love. Is it growing softer, brighter, and more visible, or is it becoming more discriminating, calculating, and vulnerable? The answer to this question has a profound impact on our Christianity, as our love is the ultimate reflection of our faith.
A Warning from Jesus
Jesus cautioned us about the dangers of a love that grows cold. In Matthew 24:10-12, He warned that in the last days, many would fall away, betray one another, and hate each other. He also predicted that false prophets would arise, leading many astray. As lawlessness increases, the love of many will grow cold. It’s crucial that we honestly ask ourselves: Is our love hot or cold?
The Dangers of Unforgiveness
When we’re wounded by someone’s thoughtlessness, it’s natural to feel hurt. However, instead of forgiving and addressing the issue according to Matthew 18, we often turn to others with our complaints. This allows the wound to fester, giving rise to a root of bitterness that can defile many (Hebrews 12:15). Unforgiveness is not love; it’s unfulfilled revenge.
Stumbling Blocks and Little Things
Jesus also warned that stumbling blocks would come (Matthew 18:7). These obstacles can be small, but they can still cause us to stumble. When we do, it’s essential that we get back up and continue walking in love. Have you stumbled over someone’s weakness or sin lately? Have you withdrawn from loving them as a result?
The Importance of Forgiveness
To preserve the quality of our love, we must forgive those who have caused us to stumble. This doesn’t mean we have to trust them; it means we choose to love them despite their weaknesses. Every time we refuse to forgive, our heart hardens not only toward them but also toward God. The Scriptures are clear: “The one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen” (1 John 4:20).
What Does Love Mean?
When I speak of love, I don’t mean “tough love.” I mean gentle, affectionate, sensitive, open, and persistent love. This kind of love is committed to standing with others, regardless of their imperfections. We need people who love us unconditionally, and we must be willing to offer the same to others. The fullness of Christ will not come without Christians standing with each other in love.
Restoring Our Hearts to Christ
The goal of overcoming the stronghold of cold love is to see our hearts restored to the heart of Christ. This won’t be easy, but if we persist, we’ll discover the height, depth, and breadth of Christ’s love. We’ll become “a body filled and flooded with God Himself” (Ephesians 3:19, AMP).
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