A Christmas of Choice
As the festive season approaches, many of us find ourselves facing circumstances that can dampen our holiday spirit. Perhaps we’re separated from loved ones, or dealing with difficult emotions. But what if we could choose how we react to these challenges?
A Young Woman’s First Solo Christmas
One year, a young woman found herself spending her first Christmas away from her family. Her brothers were serving in the military and living far away, while her parents were on another continent. It was a daunting prospect, but she decided to take control of her attitude and make the most of her situation.
Finding Joy in Solitude
On Christmas morning, she started by enjoying a leisurely breakfast, then read the story of Christ’s birth by candlelight, surrounded by her small but festive tree. As she opened her gifts, she thought of those who cared deeply for her, even though they were absent. This simple yet intentional act helped her focus on the love and kindness that still surrounded her.
A Walk in the Snow
Afterward, she bundled up and took a long winter walk in the nearby city park, soaking up the serene atmosphere. The crisp air and snowflakes falling gently around her reminded her that beauty and wonder can be found even in the most unexpected places.
Celebrating with Strangers
Finally, she joined a diverse group of people at a small downtown church, where they came together to celebrate the birth of Jesus. In that moment, she realized that true celebration begins with a choice – a decision to focus on the heart of the matter, rather than our circumstances.
A Prisoner’s Prayer
German theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer, who gave his life for his faith, penned a powerful Morning Prayer during his first Christmas in prison. His words offer a poignant reminder that our attitude is everything:
“O Heavenly Father, I praise and thank you for the peace of the night; I praise and thank you for this new day; I praise and thank you for all your goodness and faithfulness throughout my life… You make all things work together for good for your children.”
A Celebration of the Heart
This Christmas, let us remember that our emotions may swirl, but we have the power to choose our reactions. We can decide to focus on the love, kindness, and beauty that surrounds us, even in the darkest of times. As Bonhoeffer so eloquently put it, “Thank you, Father, that Christmas is first and foremost a celebration of the heart. May mine be pure.”
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