Finding True Belonging in Christian Community
For those feeling disconnected, unwanted, or on the fringes of the church, there is hope. You can experience true belonging, being fully known and fully loved by God and your community. However, this sense of belonging requires effort and commitment.
Resetting Our Priorities
To cultivate authentic community, we must reset our lives and resist the culture of hurry. This means slowing down, making concrete plans to attend weekly worship gatherings, participating in small groups or Bible studies, and serving with others in the community. By doing so, we can develop a deep, connected life with others.
The Power of Initiative
Taking initiative in friendships is crucial in building meaningful relationships. Jesus’s earthly life demonstrates a deep commitment to relationships and a remarkable sense of initiative. He frequently took the initiative with others, embracing meals and invitations, and hardly did anything alone. If we follow his example, we can experience true connection and community.
Healing in Relationships
For those who have suffered church hurt, finding healing in relationships is essential. We can’t learn to trust others or become whole through an isolated life. Instead, we must move toward others to find comfort and healing. With wise counseling and spiritual direction, we can recommit to life in an imperfect church community and experience renewal in Christ.
A Call to Persevere
Dear friend, hurt and frustrated by the church, don’t give up. Seek the Lord with others, and recommit to life in an imperfect church community. Remember, God will never fail you, and He often ministers to us through the presence and love of others.
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