The Power of Spiritual Mentoring: Finding Guidance on Your Faith Journey
As I reflect on my childhood, I’m reminded of a pivotal moment in our front yard. My dad, busy with yard work, suddenly stopped and disappeared into the garage. He returned with some tools and began to carefully tie a young, storm-damaged tree to a sturdy, older one. When I asked why, he explained that the older tree could provide support and strength, helping the younger one grow straight and strong. This image has stuck with me, symbolizing the beauty of spiritual mentoring.
In essence, discipleship is about being tethered to a more mature believer for a season, allowing us to grow stronger in faith and be equipped for ministry. Just as my dad sought out a sturdy tree to support the younger one, we can look to older, wiser believers to guide us on our spiritual journey.
Qualities of a Mentor
When searching for a mentor, it’s essential to look for individuals who embody the qualities outlined in Titus 2:2-3. Older men should be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, and sound in faith, love, and steadfastness. Older women should be reverent in behavior, not given to slander or excessive wine, and able to teach what is good.
Melissa Kruger’s work provides a valuable framework for mentoring discussions, highlighting the importance of seeking guidance from mature believers who have stood the test of time. Their faith has been refined through years of walking with the Lord, marked by steadfastness and wisdom.
Four Key Questions to Ask
As you seek out a mentor, consider the following questions:
- Does their life reflect their faith? Do they serve with humility, and do their daily patterns demonstrate faithful obedience to God’s Word?
- Do they display wisdom with their words? Are they quick to listen and slow to speak, with words that are encouraging, thankful, and honoring to God?
- Is their heart filled with love and joy, seeking pleasure in God’s presence? Are they free from addictions and worldly pleasures?
- Do they regularly spend time reading their Bible, with wisdom and faithful instruction flowing naturally from their conversations?
The Importance of Older Believers
As we grow spiritually, we need older believers who can stand beside us, offering strength and guidance gained from their experiences. While they can’t make us grow (only God can do that), they can provide refreshment, rebuke, teaching, and encouragement.
Remember, you’re not looking for perfection in a mentor, but rather someone who desires to continually grow in these areas. Seek out older believers whose lives, words, and affections are increasingly marked by a love and devotion for Jesus.
Embracing the Titus Mandate
As we consider the importance of spiritual mentoring, let’s not forget the Titus mandate. Older women, take seriously your calling to train younger women in the church. Younger women, don’t miss God’s rich provisions for your growth in grace. Let’s work together to shape our understanding of what it means to grow in godliness.
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