Navigating the Unfamiliar: Finding a Church Home
When we step into a new church, it’s not uncommon to feel like a fish out of water. The unfamiliar surroundings, customs, and even music can leave us wondering if we’re the ones who are “weird.” I recall a summer morning in 2000 when my husband and I walked into a church that was vastly different from what we were used to. The contrast was jarring, and I found myself struggling to hold back tears.
Expectations vs. Reality
As we navigated this new environment, I realized that my expectations of what church should be like were being challenged. The music, the creeds, and the hour-long sermon were all foreign to me. Yet, despite the initial culture shock, I noticed something peculiar – the people seemed to genuinely enjoy each other’s company. They lingered after the service, discussing spiritual matters and showing a sense of community that I hadn’t experienced before.
Prioritizing What Matters
As I reflect on that experience, I’m reminded that finding a church home is not about finding a place that fits our personal style or preferences. Rather, it’s about finding a community that prioritizes what truly matters – the Word of God and love for one another. When we focus on these essential elements, we can navigate the unfamiliar and find a sense of belonging.
The Power of God’s Word
As Christians, we believe that the Bible holds the key to life and godliness. The story of Ezekiel 37 illustrates the transformative power of God’s Word, bringing life to dry bones. Therefore, it’s crucial to seek out a church that centers its worship on expositional preaching, where the point of the sermon is the point of the text applied to the heart of the hearers.
Love in Action
A church that is driven by love – love for God and love for one another – is a place where we can truly worship in spirit and truth. Jesus’ commandments to love God with all our heart, soul, and mind, and to love our neighbors as ourselves, are the foundation of a healthy church community. When we prioritize love, we’ll find ourselves serving one another, showing honor, and giving of our time to assist in the service of the church.
A Church Worth Being Part Of
In the end, it’s not about finding a church that fits our style or preferences. It’s about finding a community that prioritizes God’s Word and love for one another. When we focus on these essential elements, we’ll find a sense of belonging and growth, even in the midst of unfamiliar surroundings. As I look back on that summer morning in 2000, I’m grateful for the church that became the backbone of our lives for years to come.
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