Parenting with Patience: A Lesson from the Dishpan

The Power of Patience in Parenting

As I stood at the sink, surrounded by a mountain of suds, I couldn’t help but think about the importance of patience in parenting. My four-year-old daughter, Pammy, had enthusiastically offered to wash the dinner dishes, but as I watched her struggle to get them clean, I realized that it takes more than just enthusiasm to get the job done.

The Value of Redoing

As I waited for Pammy to go to bed before re-washing the dishes, I couldn’t help but think about all the other times I’ve had to redo tasks that my children have attempted to do on their own. From remaking their beds to re-hanging their clothes, it can be frustrating to have to redo things that they’ve already done. But as I reflected on these experiences, I realized that this process is an essential part of their learning and growth.

A Lesson from the Dishpan

As I stood at the sink, my hands busy with the dishes, I asked God to help me overcome my frustration and impatience. And then it hit me – isn’t this process of redoing and re-teaching similar to what God has been doing for me since I became a Christian? Hasn’t He had to intervene and correct my mistakes countless times, forgiving me and encouraging me to try again?

A Mountain of Failures

I thought about the many times I’ve failed and fallen short, and how God has always been there to lift me up and encourage me to keep going. I realized that my failings don’t tempt Him to give up on me, but rather, they provide opportunities for Him to demonstrate His patience and forgiveness.

Moments of Rededication

These days, re-washing dishes and redoing tasks no longer frustrate me. Instead, they’ve become moments of re-dedication, reminding me of God’s daily work in my life. As I read through Scripture, I’m reminded of God’s patience, forgiveness, and long-suffering. I’m reminded that He’s always willing to listen to my prayers and cries for mercy.

A Prayer for Mercy

As I reflect on Psalm 86:5-7, I’m reminded of God’s character: “You are forgiving and good, O Lord, abounding in love to all who call to you; hear my prayer, O Lord, listen to me cry for mercy. In the day of all my trouble I will call to you for you will answer me.” These words bring me comfort and peace, reminding me that I’m not alone in my struggles, and that God is always there to help me.

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