The Power of Belonging
Reunions can be a wonderful way to reconnect with old friends and classmates. I recently attended a grade school reunion, filled with excitement and anticipation. As I caught up with familiar faces, I was struck by how much we had all changed, yet how easily our old relationships were rekindled.
A Sense of Belonging
But then I noticed a woman standing by the door, looking uncertain and uneasy. It was Sharon, someone I hadn’t seen in years. As I approached her, she confessed that she wasn’t sure she wanted to join the party. Her school years had been difficult, and she had never felt like she fit in. Even now, she struggled to feel a sense of belonging.
A Basic Human Need
Psychologists and medical professionals agree that a sense of belonging is essential to our well-being, just like food and shelter. Feeling connected to others and to a community gives our lives meaning and purpose.
A Timeless Truth
This understanding is not new. In the 17th century, the writers of the Heidelberg Catechism recognized the importance of belonging. In response to the question, “What is your only comfort in life and in death?”, they provided a profound answer: “That I am not my own, but belong—body and soul, in life and in death—to my faithful Savior, Jesus Christ.”
Unconditional Acceptance
This answer is liberating. I don’t have to pretend to be someone I’m not or try to fit into a particular group. My belonging is not based on my achievements, status, or possessions. At a deeper level, I don’t have to worry about meeting God’s standards or earning His love. Nothing I do can change His love for me.
A Safe Place
This sense of belonging brings me peace and comfort. As the poet Horacio Spafford wrote, “It is well, it is well, with my soul.” I am safe in God’s arms, protected by His strength, and loved forever. Belonging to Him is my safe place.
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