The False Promise of Self-Empowerment
In today’s society, women are often encouraged to believe in themselves and their own abilities. While this message may seem empowering, it can actually lead to disappointment and disillusionment. Jen Oshman, author of “Enough About Me,” shares her own journey of discovering that true fulfillment comes not from self-empowerment, but from finding identity in God.
A Life of Disillusionment
Growing up in a typical American home, Jen was taught to pursue her dreams and work hard to achieve success. However, when she got to college, she found herself feeling empty and unfulfilled despite her accomplishments. It wasn’t until she turned to God and began reading the Bible that she discovered a new sense of purpose and meaning.
The Toxic Message of Self-Empowerment
The message of self-empowerment can be toxic because it encourages women to rely on themselves rather than God. This can lead to burnout, disappointment, and a sense of failure. Jen argues that this message is particularly damaging to women, who are often already prone to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem.
The Importance of Humility
Rather than seeking to empower ourselves, Jen suggests that we need to cultivate humility and recognize our limitations. This means acknowledging that we are finite and in need of God’s guidance and strength. By doing so, we can find true fulfillment and purpose in life.
The Role of Social Media
Social media can exacerbate the problem of self-empowerment by creating unrealistic expectations and promoting a false sense of perfection. Jen encourages women to be mindful of their social media use and to focus on building their identities in God rather than in their online personas.
Lessons from Missions
Jen’s experiences as a missionary in Japan and the Czech Republic have given her a unique perspective on the importance of humility and reliance on God. In these cultures, being a Christian is not seen as culturally acceptable, and believers must make a conscious choice to follow Christ despite the costs. This has taught Jen the value of surrendering to God and seeking his guidance in all aspects of life.
A Call to Action
Jen’s message is not just for women, but for anyone who is seeking true fulfillment and purpose in life. By recognizing our limitations and seeking to glorify God, we can find a sense of satisfaction and joy that goes beyond our own abilities. As Jen says, “We were made for more than just our own goals and aspirations. We were made to be a part of the greatest story ever – God’s story.”
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