Navigating Theological Disagreements with Humility and Grace
As Christians, we’re no strangers to disagreements. Even when we share a common faith and commitment to Scripture, we can still find ourselves at odds over interpretation and application. But how we navigate these disagreements is crucial. Will we allow them to divide us, or will we use them as opportunities to grow in our understanding of God’s Word?
The Dangers of Divisiveness
When we let disagreements escalate into full-blown conflicts, we risk damaging the very fabric of our communities. Paul warns us that “rivalries,” “dissensions,” and “divisions” are works of the flesh, right up there with “sexual immorality,” “idolatry,” and “sorcery” (Gal. 5:19-21). That’s serious business. When we prioritize winning arguments over maintaining relationships, we’ve lost sight of what truly matters.
Practicing Humility and Teachableness
So how do we avoid this kind of divisiveness? By practicing humility and teachableness. We recognize that none of us have all the answers, and that we can learn from one another. Priscilla and Aquila model this beautifully in Acts 18, where they gently correct Apollos without publicly embarrassing him. They prioritize building him up, not tearing him down.
The Power of Spirit-Filled Prayer
Another key component in navigating theological disagreements is spirit-filled prayer. When we pray for our conversation partners, we begin to see them as brothers and sisters in Christ, rather than opponents to be defeated. This changes everything. We’re no longer fighting to win; we’re working together to understand God’s Word more deeply.
Choosing Critics Wisely
Of course, not every critic deserves a hearing. We need to choose wisely who we listen to, and prioritize those who speak reasonably, charitably, and with biblical authority. As Proverbs reminds us, “Faithful are the wounds of a friend” (27:6a).
Unplugging from Online Debates
Finally, it’s worth considering whether some conversations are better had offline. Online debates can quickly become dehumanizing, with fellow image-bearers reduced to avatars and tweets. Let’s not forget that we’re more than just our online personas. By taking some of these conversations offline, we can rebuild relationships and refocus on what truly matters.
Embodying the Fruit of the Spirit
As we navigate theological disagreements, let’s ask ourselves whether we’re embodying the fruit of the Spirit. Are we patient, gentle, and kind? Or are we stooping to insults and name-calling? When we prioritize humility, teachableness, and spirit-filled prayer, we create space for growth, understanding, and unity.
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