The Dangers of Self-Centeredness and Self-Righteousness
In today’s society, social media has created a culture of toxicity where self-centeredness and self-righteousness thrive. Award-winning author Paul David Tripp warns that this toxic culture can bleed into our everyday relationships, causing harm and destruction.
The Problem with Self-Centeredness
When we put ourselves at the center of our world, we become incapable of self-reflection and unable to consider alternative perspectives. This self-centeredness creates an inability to be disagreed with, leading to anger and defensiveness when confronted with opposing views. Tripp notes that this behavior is often rewarded on social media, where the angrier and more reactive we are, the more attention we receive.
The Danger of Self-Righteousness
Self-righteousness is equally destructive, as it causes us to focus on the sin, weakness, and failure of others while ignoring our own flaws. This mindset leads to a sense of moral superiority, where we judge others for not meeting our standards. Tripp argues that self-righteousness is a form of self-deception, blinding us to our own sin and weaknesses.
The Cure: Humility and the Gospel
So, how can we escape this toxic culture of self-centeredness and self-righteousness? Tripp suggests that the answer lies in humility and the gospel. When we recognize our own sin and weaknesses, we are more likely to approach others with empathy and understanding. The gospel reminds us that we are not independently righteous, but rather, our righteousness comes from Christ.
A Call to Reflection
Tripp encourages us to reflect on our relationships and examine whether we are putting ourselves at the center. Are we more concerned with the sin, weakness, and failure of others than our own? By acknowledging our own flaws and weaknesses, we can begin to cultivate humility and approach others with grace and empathy.
A Prayer for Humility
Lord, thank you for your patience and grace in rescuing us from ourselves. Help us to recognize our own sin and weaknesses, and to approach others with humility and empathy. May we be a beacon of light in a culture of toxicity, shining your love and redemption to a world in need. Amen.
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