Raising Men of God: A Father’s Quest
As a father, I am committed to teaching my two young sons what it means to be a man of God. In a world where masculinity is often misunderstood, I want to provide them with a clear understanding of their roles and responsibilities as men. This journey begins with understanding the true meaning of masculinity.
The Glad Assumption of Sacrificial Responsibility
Masculinity is not about dominance or aggression; it’s about taking responsibility for the physical, emotional, and spiritual safety of those in our care. It means being the first to face danger, the first to bear burdens, and the last to receive praise. This is the kind of masculinity that Christ embodied, and it’s the kind of masculinity I want my sons to aspire to.
Teaching My Sons to Be Men
To teach my sons to be men, I must model the behavior I want them to adopt. This means being a servant-leader in my home, putting the needs of others before my own, and demonstrating sacrificial love. It also means teaching them the value of hard work, self-control, and accountability.
Embracing the Gospel
The gospel of Jesus Christ is the foundation of our masculinity. It’s the good news that we are sinners saved by grace, and that we have been given a new identity in Christ. As fathers, we must teach our sons to embrace this gospel and to live out its implications in their daily lives.
First In, Last Out, Laughing Loudest
This phrase, inspired by C.S. Lewis’s The Horse and His Boy, has become a motto for our family. It reminds us that true masculinity is about putting others first, being willing to take risks, and finding joy in serving others. It’s a mindset that I want my sons to adopt, and one that will serve them well throughout their lives.
A New Way to Be Human
Christ offers us a new way to be human, a way that is characterized by humility, compassion, and kindness. As fathers, we must model this new way of being human for our sons, and teach them to follow in Christ’s footsteps.
Conclusion
Raising men of God is a daunting task, but it’s also an incredible privilege. As fathers, we have the opportunity to shape the next generation of leaders, to teach them what it means to be men of God, and to inspire them to live out their faith with courage and conviction. Let us take up this challenge with enthusiasm and dedication, knowing that the future of our families, our churches, and our communities depends on it.
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