The Influence of Social Media on Our Values
As followers of Christ, we are called to live out our faith in every aspect of our lives, including our online presence. However, social media often seems to reflect values that are contrary to God’s kingdom. While Jesus taught us to be peacemakers and meek, social media tends to reward the outraged and the narcissistic.
The Problem with Social Media
Social media has become a breeding ground for unhealthy dynamics, such as public shaming, meanness, and outrage. It’s easy to get pulled into these negative patterns, even for Christians. We often find ourselves comparing our lives to others, feeling envious or inadequate, and seeking validation through likes and comments.
A Call to Humility
In his book “Humility,” Gavin Ortlund reminds us that humility is not just an abstract virtue but a mark of gospel integrity. As Christians, we are called to cultivate humility in our online interactions, focusing on self-forgetfulness and joy rather than self-promotion and pride.
Strategies for Healthy Social Media Use
So how can we use social media in a way that honors God and promotes healthy relationships? Here are three strategies to consider:
- Practice Gratitude: Focus on using your platform to promote actual good rather than growing it for potential good. Rejoice in the influence you’ve been given, no matter how small.
- Display Kindness: Work hard to display kindness and positivity online, even in the face of disagreement or criticism. Avoid sarcasm and seek opportunities to honor others.
- Disengage Regularly: Take breaks from social media and prioritize face-to-face interaction. Mute or unfollow people who consistently drag you down, and don’t hesitate to disengage when you feel envious or lonely.
The Power of Gospel-Centered Humility
When we fill our hearts with the gospel, we begin to see social media as an opportunity to share God’s love and joy with others. We become less concerned with promoting ourselves and more concerned with promoting Christ. This is the key to using social media in a way that honors God and promotes healthy relationships.
A Prayer for Healthy Social Media Use
Lord, forgive us where we have misused social media. Fill the deepest places in our souls with your love so that we overflow with love and joy toward others in all we do and say. Help us to use social media in a way that promotes humility, kindness, and gratitude, and may our online presence be a reflection of your glory.
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