Embracing the End of Life with Dignity and Faith
As we approach the final chapter of our lives, it’s essential to confront the inevitable with courage and clarity. We must ask ourselves: “What kind of death do I want to have? Do I want to spend my last days in a hospital, surrounded by machines and medication, or at home, enveloped by loved ones?” If we don’t take control of this decision, the medical system will default to prolonging our life at all costs, often resulting in a grueling fight to the finish.
Considering Our Spiritual, Emotional, and Social State
To make informed choices, we need to assess our spiritual readiness to meet our maker. Are we at peace with our mortality? We must also consider our emotional well-being: are we exhausted from the endless medical appointments, treatments, and surgeries? Furthermore, we must think about our social situation: is our family prepared for our passing, especially if young children or teenagers are involved?
Taking Control of Our End-of-Life Care
By evaluating these factors, we can decide whether to pursue aggressive care or opt for comfort care. It’s crucial to create an advanced directive, sign a living will, and appoint a power of attorney who can make medical decisions on our behalf. For many, palliative care or hospice services can provide the necessary support to die with dignity at home, surrounded by loved ones.
Dying Well to the Glory of God
According to Dr. John Dunlop, a geriatric medicine specialist, dying well requires a holistic approach that honors our inherent dignity as humans and brings glory to God. By surrendering our lives to the Lord and embracing our mortality, we can reflect the gospel in our final days. As the church bears witness to a watching world, we must demonstrate what it means to die well and place our hope in the resurrection.
A Better Way to Die
In contrast to the medical system’s default approach, there is a better way to die. By taking control of our end-of-life care, considering our spiritual, emotional, and social state, and embracing our mortality, we can die with dignity and faith. As Dr. Dunlop emphasizes, “When I die, I want my life to reflect the gospel.” May we all strive to die well, to the glory of God.
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