The Unseen Value of Stay-at-Home Moms
As I sat on a plane, chatting with the woman beside me, I hesitated when she asked what I did for a living. I’m a stay-at-home mom, but I’d just finished writing my first book. In that moment, I felt a tug between two identities. Our culture often values the title “writer” over “stay-at-home mom,” but I decided to own my role as a mom.
Breaking Free from Societal Expectations
When I shared my answer, the woman responded with a common misconception: “I could never do that all day long. I’d be so bored!” Her reaction reflects a broader cultural attitude that devalues the work of stay-at-home moms. Even in Christian communities, there can be pressure to conform to traditional notions of success.
A Biblical Perspective on Work and Value
But Scripture tells a different story. God chooses the weak things of the world to shame the wise (1 Corinthians 1:27). He doesn’t measure value by human standards. Instead, He sees the worth in caring for people created in His image. Whether you’re making meals, caring for the sick, or loving your neighbor, your work is valuable because it reflects God’s love.
Redefining Success and Significance
We often equate success with grand accomplishments, but true significance lies in loving our neighbors and loving God. The work we do, whether in an office or at home, is good and valuable. It’s time to break free from societal expectations and recognize the worth of stay-at-home moms.
Embracing Your Role with Confidence
Courtney Reissig, a wife, mother, and writer, encourages women to see their work as a reflection of God’s love. Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom or a career woman, where God has you now is His good design for you. Your work is valuable, not because of what others think, but because it’s a manifestation of God’s love.
Finding Freedom from Guilt and Comparison
This Mother’s Day, remember that God doesn’t require perfection from you. If you struggle with guilt or comparison, consider that your worth comes from your identity in Christ, not from your role as a mom. You are loved, valued, and enough, regardless of what others think.
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