A Personal Decision with Far-Reaching Consequences
As you stand at the crossroads, facing an unexpected pregnancy, you may be tempted to think that the decision ahead is yours alone. But the truth is, the choice you make will have a ripple effect, impacting not just your life but also the lives of those around you.
The Science of Life
From the moment of fertilization, a new human life begins. This tiny being has its own unique DNA, fingerprints, and future. The fact that it’s small and dependent on you for growth doesn’t diminish its humanity. As Stephanie Gray, author of Love Unleashes Life, notes, “Words like ‘fetus’ or ‘zygote’ tell us how old someone is, but not what someone is.”
A Social Issue
Your decision about whether to continue the pregnancy is not just about you; it’s about the tiny human growing inside you. It’s about the father, who shares equal responsibility for this new life. It’s about the grandparents, aunts, uncles, and siblings who will be impacted by your choice. And it’s about the community that will be affected by the presence or absence of this new life.
Ultrasound: A Window to the Womb
For many women, seeing their unborn child on an ultrasound screen is a turning point. It’s a moment when the abstract becomes concrete, and the reality of the pregnancy sinks in. Dr. Sandy Christiansen, an OB-GYN, recalls the reactions of parents-to-be: “I’ve had dads faint… crumple to the ground. I’ve seen people in tears or with jaws dropped in amazement.”
Beyond the Crisis
In the midst of an unplanned pregnancy, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and unsure of what to do. But there are people who care and want to help. Wanda Kohn, director of a pregnancy center, says, “Abortion is often a symptom of a problem with the heart… a problem that can be addressed with love, support, and guidance.”
A Spiritual Perspective
As you navigate this challenging time, remember that you’re not alone. There is a Creator who formed you and your unborn child with intentionality and love. Jesus summarized the entirety of biblical law with two commands: love God and love your neighbor. Your unborn child is one of your neighbors, deserving of love, respect, and care.
Finding Forgiveness and Hope
If you’ve already made a choice that you regret, know that there is still forgiveness and hope available to you. Jesus Christ offers a path to healing and restoration, no matter what your past may hold. Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor for support and guidance.
Resources for Support
If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy, there are people who want to help. Visit optionline.org to find a pregnancy center near you that offers free material and medical assistance. If you’ve already started the chemical abortion process but have changed your mind, go to reverseabortionpill.com for help. And if you’re struggling with the aftermath of an abortion, click on “After Abortion Support” at optionline.org for counseling and guidance.
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