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Breaking the Surface: How to Have Meaningful Conversations

As we go about our daily lives, we often find ourselves stuck in shallow conversations. We chat with strangers, acquaintances, and even loved ones about the weather, our jobs, or our favorite TV shows, but we rarely dive deeper into more meaningful topics. However, as followers of Christ, we are called to be relational and to share the gospel with others. So, how can we break the surface and have conversations that truly matter?

Why Meaningful Conversations Matter

There are three key reasons why we need to have more meaningful conversations:

1. We were created for relationships: As image-bearers of God, we were designed to interact with others and to know and be known by them. When we live in community and engage in deep conversations, we reflect the likeness of God.
2. The gospel must be shared: Building bridges with others through acts of service and casual conversations is important, but eventually, we must share the spoken gospel of Christ. This requires us to have intentional, meaningful conversations with others.
3. Love requires depth: Christ’s command to love one another requires us to go beyond surface-level conversations and to bear one another’s burdens. This means having proactive, meaningful conversations with fellow believers.

Preparing for Meaningful Conversations

So, how can we prepare ourselves to have more meaningful conversations? Here are a few practical steps:

1. Pray for God’s help: Recognize that you can’t do it on your own and ask God for wisdom and guidance in your conversations.
2. Strengthen your love for others: If you’re self-focused or indifferent to the spiritual needs of others, ask God to change your heart and conform your thoughts to Christ.
3. Prepare questions in advance: Think about simple questions you can ask others to direct the conversation towards more meaningful topics, such as “What does your church teach about…?” or “How can I pray for you?”

Practicing Meaningful Conversations

Don’t be discouraged if you feel like you lack the communication skills or personality to have meaningful conversations. With practice, you can improve! Start by incorporating these suggestions into your daily conversations, and don’t be afraid to make mistakes.

Remember, Jesus was the perfect example of a man of understanding who could draw out the deep waters of a person’s heart. Seek to speak like Christ and take the steps to initiate meaningful, eternally profitable conversations. Pray, prepare, practice – and then dive into the deep!